Bestlah buku ni,mulanya risau juga nak beli buku omputih,sebab risau pengunaan perkataan di luar kotak fikiranku😂Tapi sebab pernah dengar short talk daripada Bro Aiman ni dan agak mudah dan boleh faham.So beli + nampak menarik buku ni untuk diambil ilmunya.
Baru done baca bab 1.
Kita share sikit ek point bab 1,eksen sikit guna bahasa omputih😅😂
Establish your principle : A way to filter your options.
1.Have A Filtering Mechanism
We must first determine what our life principles are because they will serve as our filtering mechanism when we want narrow down the options of choosing the best person to marry.
2.Choose For Your Children
The Prophet said "Choose a spouse for your children..." (Ibn Majah)
When searching for a potential spouse,you must think beyond your own self and think for your future children because this sets up for a strong foundation in your marriage.
3.Building Future Members Of The Society
Marriage is more than just between you and your partner,it is way for you to build a mini-society from within your home.To prepare for this responsibility,we must first change ourselves and the change starts now.
*When you are thinking about preparing for marriage,put 80% of your focus on learning how to build and maintain a long lasting and meaningful relationship.The other 20% can be focused on learning about what happens when a marriage breaks down.
Bab 1 baru ye,ada 9 lagi chapter + ada juga diketengahkan 1 bahagian untuk beberapa isu yang sering timbul.So far,nice book🌹